I was never really good at laser tag. I liked to go to laser tag but I was awful at it. I always came in last, but I was a good sport. Then years later I found out that all the other players would cover their tag sensors so other players could not tag them. It made me question if I was the worse player or the best because I follow the rules. I like to think I was the best because I followed the rules.
Sometimes doing something together that is unique and unusual is more memorable then just going to a nice restaurant for a first date.